Oneida County Divorce Law Blog
Drafting divorce agreements through mediation
Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution. Courts often rule that civil cases, like divorce, may resolve in mediation instead of traditional litigation. Judges will not allow any case to leave the courtroom however, and only grant mediation if the...
Wait: How exactly does the holiday schedule with the kids work?
It’s that time of year again: While most people are thinking about how they’re going to get the leaves out of the yard, divorced parents are already thinking ahead about how they’re going to juggle the holiday schedule with the kids. If you’ve forgotten how this works...
What to do if you never acted on the need for a QDRO
There are so many details to manage during a divorce that is easy to let a few things slip. You have to advocate for yourself, adjust to a new household or custody arrangements, update your estate plan and get the support you need to move on emotionally. When the...
Protect yourself if you’re leaving an abusive marriage
The day that you realize your life is in danger because of an abusive spouse, you’re probably going to know that it’s time to leave. While this might seem easy to some, there are a lot of logistical concerns and emotional impacts that come with this decision. One of...
Be flexible in your parenting plans
It is graduation day and your child looks out from the stage and waves to you. They scan the crowd to find their dad but can’t. Then they remember. This week they are with you, which means they don’t get to see their dad. That is not how child custody and parenting...
Who gets to keep your pets during a contentious divorce?
Not all married couples who want to start a family have children. Some of them add animals to their family. Others have a combination of progeny and pets that gives them a feeling of home and happiness. Going through a divorce is difficult in every situation, but it...
Moving with your kids? That might not be possible
It should go without saying, but if you are getting a divorce and intend to leave the state with your children afterward, that’s something that you should discuss with your spouse. Unless the court decides otherwise, your spouse has parental rights and is able to see...
Are you prepared to divide debts in divorce?
As you prepare for divorce, don’t turn a blind eye to your debt. If you do, you could find yourself in for a big surprise post-divorce, which makes it much more difficult to establish a sound financial future. You must prepare to divide your liabilities in a divorce,...
How therapy could make divorce easier for your whole family
In the eyes of most people, counseling is probably something that takes place before a divorce. Specifically, people will think of couples therapy as a tool that may have failed if you file for divorce. However, therapy or counseling during a divorce isn't just about...
Collaborative law can help resolve your divorce amicably
Collaborative law creates an excellent way for you to work together with your spouse and come out of your divorce or separation in a more positive mindset and place. With the collaborative law model, the goal is to avoid litigation and spending time in court. This...