On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | Jun 12, 2020 | Divorce
Is your divorce hitting you kind of hard? Are you struggling to wrap your mind around all of the changes in your life? Do you find yourself feeling out-of-sorts, melancholy or generally overwhelmed? You’re likely grieving. The drastic changes in your life caused by...
On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | May 19, 2020 | Divorce
In many ways, a prenup is a chance to talk through your divorce and make decisions even before you get married. You know that your rights are going to change when you marry the other person, entering a contract with them, and you want some control over that. The...
On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | May 18, 2020 | Divorce
As you prepare for the divorce process, it’s natural to have concerns about what will happen to your retirement benefits. While there are many ways to tackle this, a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) may be your best option. A QDRO is most commonly used for...
On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | May 11, 2020 | Divorce
Divorce battles, including the ones over child custody, can wear you down mentally. When your ex is sociopath, you’re likely going to feel like you’re constantly fighting, but there is a technique you might be able to use that could help you to get the matters...
On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | Apr 23, 2020 | Divorce
People who serve in the military are subject to more regulations and rules than other American adults. In addition to complying with state and federal laws, they must also comply with the Uniform Code of Military Justice. The military has its own rules that affect...
On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | Mar 31, 2020 | Divorce
You and your spouse still get along, even though you’ve decided to separate and divorce. Neither of you wants a costly divorce, nor do you want to drag it out longer than necessary. One thing that may be helpful to you is a collaborative divorce. Collaborative...
On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | Mar 24, 2020 | Divorce
Divorce isn’t easy for any couple, but it’s a decision that can be especially detrimental for their children. Depending on the age and understanding, divorce can lead to handful of adjustment issues in children and teenagers that can follow them for a lifetime –...
On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | Mar 12, 2020 | Divorce
Some describe divorce as a purely emotional time. The love that you once felt has faded. You are starting a new chapter in your life. You may grieve the relationship you lost, you may feel angry with your ex or you may even feel excited about what the future holds. No...
On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | Mar 5, 2020 | Divorce
Divorce is a difficult process, but it doesn’t always have to be a total nightmare. When both parties desire a split and can agree to work together towards their goals, a collaborative divorce might be the right solution. This option can keep you out of court and make...
On behalf of Michael G. Putter, Attorney at Law | Mar 5, 2020 | Divorce
It can be really frustrating to face off against your spouse in a divorce or custody hearing and watch as they put on a “nice-person mask” for the court. Your spouse may hurl curses at you over the slightest provocation and talk terribly about you in front of the kids...
