When you are going through a divorce, you might find that you start to fall into the mode of thinking that things are always going wrong. You have to try to find ways to make things work and still remain positive. The fact is that moving on after a divorce can be...
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Areas of negotiations present in a divorce
The divorce process for some individuals is easy. They already know who is getting what, and they don't have any children. Those cases are certainly simple, but they aren't common. For people who need to work out property division matters or handle child custody...
3 things to know about splitting a 401(k) during divorce
One of the most complex aspects of divorcing your spouse is determining how to split your assets. Dividing your bank accounts or possessions may be hard enough, but when it comes to a 401(k), the stakes get higher. This retirement asset may be the largest source of...
Tips for dividing debt in divorce
Asset division during divorce is a critical part of the process. You may need to split up bank accounts, retirement funds, pensions and other assets, from your home to your car to the artwork you bought together. Don't stop with simply dividing your assets. You also...
Preparation for divorce is imperative to reduce stress
One of the most important things you can do when you are divorcing is prepare for what is to come. If you are the one who is filing the petition, you can make sure that you are prepared before you head to the courthouse to file. If your ex is filing, you can try to...
Pensions, retirement accounts have special divorce requirements
People often work at companies that offer retirement benefits. This is a great way that you can save for your retirement and know that you will be taken care of in the future. There is one situation that might throw a wrench in those plans – a divorce. If you are...
4 ways to achieve the good faith burden of proof for a relocation
If you're a single parent trying to advocate in court to relocate with your children, you could be facing a losing battle if the other parent doesn't agree with your wish to move away. However, if you can prove that the move is in the best interests of your child and...
Do grandparents in New York have custody rights?
As a New York grandparent, a time may come when you want to establish legal custody over your grandchild. Maybe your grandchild’s parents are behind bars, or perhaps you have concerns about one or both parents abusing alcohol or drugs. Regardless of your reasoning for...
How you may feel when your spouse asks for a divorce
You don't want to end your marriage, but your spouse asks you for a divorce. It feels like it comes out of the blue. It's stunning. At first, you may feel shocked and then emotionally devastated. You could feel like your entire relationship was an illusion; you...
What are the legal grounds for divorce in New York?
What are the legal grounds for divorce in New York? The breakdown of a marriage is never easy, but when divorce becomes your final solution, you will probably have a lot of questions about the process. Like other states, New York now allows residents to acquire a...