Going through a divorce is tough. In fact, it is one of the most financially and emotionally taxing life experiences one can ever go through. However, divorce becomes even more hectic if your spouse has narcissistic tendencies. Narcissists are generally manipulative...
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Does a QDRO give you half of a pension plan?
A qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) is a document that you can use to divide retirement plans, pension plans and other financial assets if you’re getting divorced. These documents are used to distribute future payments to an ex-spouse. For example, perhaps...
Considering a family vacation with your ex? Some tips
You’ve likely seen stories of stars, royals and other wealthy, famous people whose “conscious uncoupling” (AKA divorce) was so mature and civilized that they continue to vacation together with their children as well as their current spouses. You probably assume they...
Why you should avoid social media during your divorce
Social media in the middle of a legal issue is usually not the best thing. And this is not different during a divorce. Some people fail to make the right moves during their divorces, and end up dealing with negative consequences. Therefore, you need to be careful....
Why do many kids think they caused their parents’ divorce?
One of the most heartbreaking things you can experience as a divorcing parent is to have your child ask, “Are you divorcing because of me?” They might not ask it in precisely that way. They might relate the situation to a particular thing they did. Regardless, it’s...
2 ways collaborative divorce benefits kids
When a marriage is strained beyond repair, the couple in question would traditionally head to court to settle various aspects of the divorce. However, litigation does not have to be your first choice, especially if you and your spouse are seeing eye-to-eye on most...
How do you know if a collaborative divorce is the right choice?
Divorce is not an easy process, even when the two of you are in a position where you still get along. It’s a highly emotive event to go through which is made even more complex when you have the well-being of your family to consider. When considering your options, you...
3 important steps to take before filing for divorce
Have you decided to file for divorce, you may be ready to file the papers and move on. While you may want to get things over with as quickly as possible, rushing the process is never a good idea. Preparing for divorce is important. Some steps to help you with this...
3 tips for a successful collaborative divorce
If you and your spouse can agree on major issues during your divorce, you may not need court intervention. With professional help, a collaborative divorce can give you fair solutions. This divorce process is almost similar to mediation - the difference is that it's...
How can we help our kids cope with the divorce?
Sometimes, divorce can be the solution to an unhealthy and unhappy union. If you have decided to end your marriage, there’s a pretty good chance you will be thinking about more than just yourself. This is especially true if you have kids. Divorce can impact children...
