People often say that they want to “win” their divorces, but what does that really mean? Does that mean keeping your divorce private? Does it mean getting everything you want while ignoring your soon-to-be-ex-spouse’s needs and wants? Usually, attempting to “win” a...
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Marriage myths: Stay together for the kids
If you talk to someone in an unhappy marriage who has not yet decided to get a divorce, they may say they want to stay together for the kids. This is a common reason that parents give, and it is hard to blame them. They love their children and want what's best for...
Your divorce lawyer didn’t get you a QDRO? It’s not too late for one
Your divorce was undoubtedly a hectic and stressful affair, with settlements to negotiate, court hearings to attend, documents to file and possibly even litigation in court. Even if you were blessed with a divorce that was relatively free of contention, you still had...
3 ways to take care of your emotional needs during divorce
Obtaining a divorce can be extremely stressful on all parties. For this reason, it is not uncommon to feel emotionally drained either during or after the process. Failing to recognize and deal with stressful situations could result in a long-term impact on your...
Can you stop a divorce if you want to stay together?
When you got married, you both certainly had a say in the matter. You each had to sign the marriage license, and you each had to say “I do” during the ceremony. This was a union you entered into together. Now your spouse says they want to get a divorce, but you’re...
How to deal with your online accounts in a New York divorce
Divorces can be messy even with the most amicable New York couples. Regardless of how much you trust your soon-to-be ex-spouse, it's important to put your own privacy first and foremost when starting the divorce proceedings. Considering how many accounts and profiles...
What causes gray divorces in New York?
No age group can claim to be "divorce-free," and many spouses over age 50 may experience a breakup. The so-called "gray divorce" phenomenon affects a wide range of couples. Some may be newly married and suffer through their second or third divorce. Others might choose...
Asset division in a grey divorce in New York
Grey divorces in New York are quite complicated to navigate, given the years of marriage and what you have built together. It gets trickier when dividing your property, especially when working out which is separate and marital, and the fairest way of separating them....
Find out what collaborative divorce is and why it’s often preferred.
Divorce can be a messy, long-running process with hurt feelings on both sides, and excessive spending on legal fees. It can also be quick, seamless, and relatively painless, even for partners who don't agree on everything. With collaborative divorce, each person can...
What to know about equitable division rules
If you get divorced in New York, joint assets will be divided in an equitable fashion. There are many factors that may come into play when determining what constitutes an equitable division of assets in your case. These factors may include your age, ability to work...
